Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Lauren's Insight on Bridal Showers

I have had the priviledge of going to quite a few bridal showers this year, and many in the past. This is a list of tips I have compiled that will help to make a bridal shower fun and interesting for everyone there. Take it for what it is, it's just my opinion!

::stepping on my soap box::

1. Bridesmaids:


Define the roles of what everyone's role is going to be BEFORE the guests arrive. The worst thing is when bridesmaids fight over the jobs in front of the party :)



* One bridesmaid (most often the Maid of Honor) should be seated near the bride to take the cards and make a Detailed list of what each person got the couple.
*One bridesmaid should be bringing the gifts to the Bride
*One bridesmaid should be taking the opened gift from the Bride and placing it in a neat pile. (if you can, bring rubbermaid containers to allow to store gifts. It also makes for easy loading after)
*One bridesmaid should be disposing of the gift wrap. (this may not be the best job, but it may be the most important!)
*One bridesmaid should be making the gift bow bouquet.Make sure this is someone who has done one before, or is creative!

If you don't have that many bridesmaids, you can have other people sub into these roles.

2. Brides:

The way you act and carry yourself at the shower says a lot about you. People are there for you, and they are excited for you.

*Please announce who every gift is from. People want to know when their gift is being opened and others want to know what people got.
*Show the crowd each gift.
*Thank the person who got you the gift when you open it. They spent time and money getting you that gift, they need to be acknowledged.
*Greet all your guests when they arrive. They are there for you, please show them you are happy.
*Don't spend all your time with your bridesmaids - you see them ALL the time. When is the last time you got to see Aunt Betty?
*Don't check your registry everyday. Let there be some surprise!
*If you get overwhelmed just take a deep breathe and relax!
*Write a personal message in the thank you card. People really appreciate the thank you cards

3. Guests

The bride invited you because you are someone important to her.

*Please do not talk through the gift opening. This is incedibly distracting.
*Don't be afraid to talk to people that you don't know, everyone there has something in common - either the bride or the groom, use that as a conversation starter!



4. General Tips:
*Set up the room so everyone can see the bride when she is opening gifts. The worst thing is when people feel like they are pushed to the back like their presence is not important.
*Do not invite an overwhelming amount of guest. If you need to have 100+ people at a shower, please break this into a couple of showers. The shower is not meant to be a mini reception and you shouldn't obligate every women coming to your wedding to come to the shower as well. I went to a shower this weekend of 32 people and it was the perfect size.
*Try a different theme to create excitement: wine tasting, stack the bar shower, couple's shower.... the possibilities are endless
*This is one people have differeing opinions on, but mine is please don't make me fill out my own address. Why don't I open the gift I brought too?
*And above all, enjoy being there, being the bride and being part of the wedding. This day is to celebrate the Bride and Groom building a life together - dont lose site of that!



Making sure you take into consideration some of these things when planning a bridal shower for someone else, will help everyone enjoy their time there.


::stepping off my soap box::

Good Luck Planning :)

PS look at this fab bow bouquet Megan G. and I made for our friend Megan's rehearsal:


Monday, July 27, 2009

Floor Monogram by TEN23 Designs

As I was reading my RSS Feeds last week, I came across an interesting idea on Brenda's Wedding Blog. She was feature TEN23 Designs, Lauren Atwater. Lauren designed decals for the floor or wall to use at your reception, in your home etc. I contacted Lauren to see what she could do for Mike and I.

I have always thought having a gobo on the dance floor would be a neat idea, but it didn't quite fit into the budget. Lauren took our monogram and came up with this:


This is not harmful to the floor and will come up at the end of the night. The cost for this is $20!!!!!! I am going to see if she can make me two more, one for the wall behind the head table and one for the glass door you enter the hall through.

Lauren is running special this month for 15% off if you mention Brenda's Wedding Blog. Click here for the detailed post on Brenda's Wedding Blog.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Wedding Crazy Weekend!

So I took time out of the usually weekend wedding planning to enjoy some wedding related activity for others. On Saturday, my friend Amanda was getting married and my friend Lauren was having her bachlorette party. Needless to say, I was supposed to be in two places at once. So being the planner that I am, I did both.
The day started out at Amanda's beautiful ceremony. It was one of the prettiest ceremonies I have ever attended. The church was full of light and love.





Mr. and Mrs. Dominick Kaple!!

After the ceremony, I made a quick stop at the beginning of the bachlorette party.


The girls :)

All dressed and ready for her party!

Then it was off to the reception. It was at Wagner's Country Inn. I had never seen that ballroom look so elegant and pretty.








Had to get one with the beautiful bride Amanda



We're soon!

Right before the reception was over, Mike and I left and he took me back to the bachlorette party at Shooters.

I finished the night with the bachlorette party and had a fun - exhausting day!

Friday, July 17, 2009

Lauren's Sneak Peak at the Bridal Shower

My Great Aunt, my mom and my sister aka MOH had a meeting the other night about the bridal shower and invited me along to come. My family knows how much I enjoy being a part of planning, so they decided to break tradition and include me in on the plans! We got to take a sneak peak at the place they will be hosting the party at.

The bridal shower will be at the Falls Pointe Club. It is the club located inside my parents development. I wanted to have a home-y like feel, and what better than a clubhouse designed similar to their house!

So… here are some pictures.
The whole back of the room is windows that overlook the lake and pool.
Here are some pictures of the inside of the room. They are going to replace the tables and chairs with rented tables and chairs and use the linen company we are using for th wedding, The Finishing Touch, to do some table clothes and table runners.
The fireplace is turned on by a switch so they will have that going with candles lining the mantel.
And how could I not show my beautiful hostesses???
Emma, Great Aunt Sally, Mom
They are planning on bringing in someone from The Wine Room in Avon to do a wine tasting for the guests. The rest of the plans are TBD…. I will keep you posted!